InThe MemoiristbyDana DuBoisMy Dad, Dementia, and the Things We Don’t ForgetIn the end, all we want is to be remembered.Feb 2059Feb 2059
InThree Imaginary GirlsbyDana DuBois17 Songs About 17-Year-OldsI celebrate my child with music, as she teeters over “the edge of seventeen”Jan 2262Jan 2262
InThree Imaginary GirlsbyDana DuBoisMy Top Shows of 2024From Taylor to Tullycraft, most of my favorite memories of 2024 were musical ones — all 18 of them.Jan 427Jan 427
InThree Imaginary GirlsbyDana DuBoisBad Luck With Billie EilishTwo of the three of us finally saw her live. December 5, 2024 at Climate Pledge Arena in Seattle.Dec 23, 202425Dec 23, 202425
InAge of EmpathybyDana DuBoisI Took My Teens to a Speed Dating EventWhat would Carrie Bradshaw do?Dec 9, 202433Dec 9, 202433
InPink Hair & PronounsbyDana DuBoisI Love My Nonbinary Child. I Still Deadnamed Them.What’s in a (dead) name? Would gender identity by another name sound as sweet?Nov 14, 202421Nov 14, 202421
InPink Hair & PronounsbyDana DuBoisProtecting Our Trans and Nonbinary Kids Under Trump and Project 2025Will it be safe? I have no idea. Is it necessary? More than ever.Nov 11, 202463Nov 11, 202463
InAge of EmpathybyDana DuBoisI Flew 3,000 Miles for My Dad’s 80th Birthday. He Can’t Remember I Was There.So why did I go?Oct 25, 202449Oct 25, 202449
InPink Hair & PronounsbyDana DuBoisMy Child Came Out as Genderfluid. Then They Went Back In.But don’t call it social contagion. It’s gender exploration, and we need to normalize it— not pathologize it.Oct 10, 202446Oct 10, 202446
InHeart AffairsbyDana DuBoisDating the “Test and Apologize” TypeThe test is in earnest. The apology never is. Or is it?Oct 9, 202437Oct 9, 202437
InPink Hair & PronounsbyDana DuBoisMy Child Came Out As Genderfluid 3 Years Ago — 10 Things I Wish I Knew Then10 things every parent should do when their child comes out.Sep 18, 202423Sep 18, 202423
InThe Parenting PortalbyDana DuBoisI Found a Time Capsule of Lost Words I Wrote About My BabyA love letter to my daughter on her one-week birthdaySep 10, 202438Sep 10, 202438
InThree Imaginary GirlsbyDana DuBoisIt Was Rare, I Was There: Taylor Swift in Munich, GermanyMy two teens and I traveled nearly 6,000 miles to see the Eras Tour. It was stressful, expensive, chaotic — and completely worth…Aug 24, 202432Aug 24, 202432
InThe MemoiristbyDana DuBoisA German Guy and Jewish Girl Met in a Goth Club in Atlanta…We had a cross-country, cross-continent summer love that changed the trajectory of my life.Jul 23, 202416Jul 23, 202416
InAge of EmpathybyDana DuBoisAn Ambivalent Jew Returns to Germany for Taylor SwiftI feel echoes of what once happened here. My daughters felt nothing, till I showed them — and they showed me.Aug 4, 202452Aug 4, 202452
InThe MemoiristbyDana DuBoisThe Hunt for Undies in DublinThe trials and joys of searching an unfamiliar city for basic essentials.Aug 12, 202435Aug 12, 202435
InCatnessbyDana DuBoisLooking for Linus the Lost CatSometimes a search for a cat is more than a search for a cat.Aug 19, 202438Aug 19, 202438
InThree Imaginary GirlsbyDana DuBois45 Years of Friendship Meets 25 Years of “69 Love Songs”I flew to San Francisco and met my best friend for the Magnetic Fields’ two-night show at the Curran Theater.Jul 15, 202427Jul 15, 202427
InAge of EmpathybyDana DuBoisHow I Learned Not to Date DownI thought I could spare myself heartache by settling. I was wrong.Jul 9, 2024117Jul 9, 2024117
InThe Narrative ArcbyDana DuBoisFor Daughters Who Can Never Find a Father’s Day Card That Fits…Hallmark doesn’t quite make rhyming couplets for my challenging relationship with my dad.Jun 14, 202432Jun 14, 202432